#Lasting relationship

[melonsharks]

au where everything is the same except mabel and dipper have been going to gravity falls every year before the show takes place since like kindergarten.

its a pretty simple premise that derives mostly from my desire to explore interpersonal relationships and the ways a place and people can change from a young child’s point of view. it doesn’t change canon that much either, admittedly, i just wanted to draw childhood friends stuff LOL. ill call it uhhhhhhhh every summer au.

[phantom-of-the-501st]

Remember that this is not the proof that they love each other

That was a last-ditch attempt from Crowley to get Aziraphale to stay

This is the proof that they love each other

Their love wasn't just made real because they kissed

It always existed

[a-scary-lack-of-common-sense]

How Bill was defeated and captured by Ford in my Gf AU! He basically just tricked Bill into accepting a deal that trapped him within Ford's mind and under his control :]

He may have gotten a little out of hand though....

>:)

Next post :]

[honeymoonersonly]

Building Blocks for Healthy and Lasting Relationships: How to Cultivate a Strong Partnership

 In the journey of love and companionship, the desire for a healthy and lasting relationship is universal. However, achieving such a bond requires more than mere wishful thinking; it demands intentional effort, mutual understanding, and a commitment to growth. Whether you're embarking on a new relationship or seeking to strengthen an existing one, here are essential strategies to build a strong and enduring connection with your partner.

1. Communication is Key: Effective communication serves as the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. It's not just about talking but also about actively listening and understanding your partner's perspective. Practice open and honest communication, share your thoughts, feelings, and concerns openly, and encourage your partner to do the same. By fostering a culture of trust and vulnerability, you can deepen your emotional connection and resolve conflicts constructively.

2. Cultivate Trust and Transparency: Trust forms the foundation of a lasting relationship. Build trust by being consistent, reliable, and transparent in your words and actions. Be accountable for your commitments and avoid keeping secrets or withholding information from your partner. Trust is nurtured through mutual respect, honesty, and integrity, creating a sense of security and stability within the relationship.

3. Prioritize Quality Time Together: Spending quality time with your partner strengthens your bond and fosters intimacy. Make time for shared activities, meaningful conversations, and romantic gestures that nurture your connection. Whether it's going for a walk, cooking together, or simply cuddling on the couch, prioritize quality time to create lasting memories and deepen your emotional connection.

4. Respect Each Other's Differences: Celebrate and respect each other's individuality, including your differences in opinions, beliefs, and interests. Embrace diversity as an opportunity for personal growth and mutual understanding. Avoid trying to change or control your partner; instead, appreciate them for who they are and encourage their personal development and self-expression.

5. Practice Empathy and Understanding: Empathy is the ability to understand and share your partner's feelings. Cultivate empathy by actively listening, validating your partner's emotions, and seeking to understand their perspective. Show compassion and support during challenging times, and be there for your partner without judgment or criticism. By practicing empathy, you can strengthen your emotional connection and foster a deeper sense of intimacy.

6. Work as a Team: Approach challenges and obstacles as a team, supporting each other through thick and thin. Collaborate on decision-making, problem-solving, and goal-setting, and celebrate your successes together. Remember that you're partners in life, and together, you can overcome any obstacles that come your way. By working as a team, you can build a strong foundation for your relationship to thrive.

7. Maintain Individual Identities: While it's essential to nurture your relationship, it's equally important to maintain your individual identities and interests. Spend time pursuing your hobbies, goals, and friendships outside of the relationship. Encourage your partner to do the same, respecting their need for personal space and autonomy. By maintaining a healthy balance between togetherness and independence, you can prevent feelings of suffocation or resentment and keep your relationship vibrant and fulfilling.

In conclusion, building a healthy and lasting relationship requires dedication, patience, and a willingness to prioritize communication, trust, quality time, mutual respect, empathy, teamwork, and individual growth. By investing in these essential components, you can cultivate a strong and enduring connection with your partner that stands the test of time. Remember that relationships require ongoing effort and commitment, but the rewards of a loving and fulfilling partnership are truly priceless.Syndication URL on Building Blocks for Healthy and Lasting Relationships: How to Cultivate a Strong Partnership

[queen-morgana91]

"Katara was the first one to reach out to Zuko"

Nope, it was Aang

and zuko has never forgotten his words :)

[demaparbat-hp]

Damage.

Quote by @desertbcrnnobody

[dc-probate-attorney]

The Unbreakable Bond: The Role of Friendship in a Marriage

Marriage, often seen as the pinnacle of romantic relationships, is a profound partnership that goes beyond love and passion. At its core lies an unspoken camaraderie, a deep friendship that forms the foundation of a strong and enduring marriage. Friendship in marriage is not just a pleasant addition; it’s a fundamental element that enriches the relationship, adding layers of trust, understanding,…

[beif0ngs]

alright look, i just wanna know who is the writer that came up with the dumbass idea of replacing the line “Ever since I lost my son, I think of you as my own” with “Lu Ten would have been proud to have you as his father” in this scene for the Netflix live action series???

[bixels]

Learning that fans hated Applejack and called her "boring" is crazyyy to me because I genuinely, unironically believe AJ's the most complex character in the main six.

Backstory-wise, she was born into a family of famers/blue collar workers who helped found the town she lives in. She grew up a habitual liar until she had the bad habit traumatized outta her. She lost both her parents and was orphaned at a young age, having to step up as her baby sister's mother figure. She's the only person in the main gang who's experienced this level of loss and grief (A Royal Problem reveals that AJ dreams about memories of being held by her parents as a baby). She moved to Manhattan to live with her wealthy family members, only to realize she'll never fit in or be accepted, even amongst her own family. The earlier seasons imply she and her family had money problems too (In The Ticket Master, AJ wants to go to the gala to earn money to buy new farm equipment and afford hip surgery for her grandma).

Personality-wise, she's a total people-pleaser/steamroller (with an occasional savior complex) who places her self worth on her independence and usefulness for other people, causing her to become a complete workaholic. In Applebuck Season, AJ stops taking care of herself because of her obsessive responsibilities for others and becomes completely dysfunctional. In Apple Family Reunion, AJ has a tearful breakdown because in she thinks she dishonored her family and tarnished her reputation as a potential leader –– an expectation and anxiety that's directly tied to her deceased parents, as shown in the episode's ending scene. In The Last Roundup, AJ abandons her family and friends out of shame because believes she failed them by not earning 1st place in a rodeo competition. She completely spirals emotionally when she isn't able to fulfill her duties toward others. Her need to be the best manifests in intense pride and competitiveness when others challenge her. And when her pride's broken, she cowers and physically hides herself.

Moreover, it's strongly implied that AJ has a deep-seated anger. The comics explore her ranting outbursts more. EQG also obviously has AJ yelling at and insulting Rarity in a jealous fit just to hurt her feelings (with a line that I could write a whole dissection on). And I'm certain I read in a post somewhere that in a Gameloft event, AJ's negative traits are listed as anger.

Subtextually, a lot of these flaws and anxieties can be (retroactively) linked to her parents' death, forcing her to grow up too quickly to become the adult/caregiver of the family (especially after her big brother becomes semiverbal). Notice how throughout the series, she's constantly acting as the "mom friend" of the group (despite everything, she manages to be the most emotionally mature of the bunch). Notice how AJ'll switch to a quieter, calmer tone when her friends are panicking and use soothing prompts and questions to talk them through their emotions/problems; something she'd definitely pick up while raising a child. Same with her stoicism and reluctance at crying or releasing emotions (something Pinkie explicitly points out). She also had a childhood relationship with Rara (which, if you were to give a queer reading, could easy be interpreted as her first 'aha' crush), who eventually left her life. (Interestingly enough, AJ also has an angry outburst with Rara for the same exact reasons as with EQG Rarity; jealous, upset that someone else is using and changing her). It's not hard to imagine an AJ with separation anxiety stemming from her mother and childhood friend/crush leaving. I'm also not above reading into AJ's relationship with her little sister (Y'all ever think about how AB never got to know her parents, even though she shares her father's colors and her mother's curly hair?).

AJ's stubbornness is a symptom of growing up too quickly as well. Who else to play with your baby sister when your brother goes nonverbal (not to discount Big Mac's role in raising AB)? Who else to wake up in the middle of the night to care for your crying baby sister when your grandma needs her rest? When you need to be 100% all the time for your family, you tend to become hard-stuck with a sense of moral superiority. You know what's best because you have to be your best because if you're aren't your best, then everything'll inevitably fall apart and it'll be your fault. And if you don't know what's best –– if you've been wrong the whole time –– that means you haven't been your best, which means you've failed the people who rely on you, which means you can't fulfill your role in the family/society, which makes you worthless . We've seen time and time again how this compulsive need to be right for the sake of others becomes self-destructive (Apple Family Reunion, Sound of Silence, all competitions against RD). We've seen in The Last Roundup how, when no longer at her best, AJ would rather remove herself from her community than confront them because she no longer feels of use to them.

But I guess it is kinda weird that AJ has "masculine" traits and isn't interested in men at all. It's totally justified that an aggressively straight, misogynistic male fandom would characterize her as a "boring background character." /s

At the time of writing this, it's 4:46AM.

[xixovart]

“no seriously who did you choose?”

“i chose you”

grover and percy are the platonic soulmates. in the most literal sense possible. i mean, literally nobody in the world, including their respective girlfriends, will ever know grover and percy as well as they know each other. and not just because of their empathy link.

grover was the person who was there for percy the most. he helped percy transition from the mortal world into the greek one. he supported percy in tlt when sally was thought to be dead. grover was percy’s first friend. ever. it’s not fair how people keep forgetting that. grover saved percy’s life.

percy literally did NOT hesitate to save grover when he was kidnapped by polyphemus. percy tried his hardest to be there for grover while grover fulfilled his dreams of finding pan. percy and grover travelled through most of the labyrinth together. grover is the foundation of percy’s best traits. percy saved grover’s life.

there is no other friendship in any of riordan’s books that can compare to grover and percy’s. they’re platonic soulmates. there’s no one like them.

[despondentbeauty]

It’s okay to still get sad about something you thought you’ve healed from.

[calypsolemon]

betrayal, and the ache afterwards

[cthulhum]

does anyone realize how crazy it is to have the actor of a mostly headcanoned queer ship say the fans were never crazy and they were right all along after 10+ years of everyone just absolutely going nuts over the said queerbaited ship

[honeymoonersonly]

How to Cultivate a Strong and Lasting Relationship: Keys to Building Health and Longevity

 In the realm of human connection, the desire for a relationship that withstands the test of time is universal. Yet, the path to creating a lasting partnership requires deliberate effort, understanding, and a commitment to growth. A healthy and enduring relationship isn't merely a matter of chance; it's a result of intentional choices and actions. Here's a guide onhow to make your relationship strong and last longer, paving the way for a journey filled with love, joy, and longevity.

1. Prioritize Communication: Effective communication is the cornerstone of a strong relationship. It involves not only expressing your thoughts and feelings but also actively listening to your partner with empathy and understanding. Make time for honest conversations, share your concerns openly, and be receptive to your partner's perspective. By fostering open communication, you build trust, deepen emotional connection, and lay a solid foundation for the relationship to thrive.

2. Nurture Mutual Respect: Respect is the bedrock of any healthy relationship. Treat your partner with kindness, courtesy, and consideration, even in moments of disagreement or frustration. Value their opinions, boundaries, and autonomy, and refrain from belittling or dismissive behavior. Cultivate a culture of mutual respect where both partners feel valued, appreciated, and cherished for who they are.

3. Foster Trust and Transparency: Trust forms the backbone of a lasting relationship. Be consistent in your words and actions, follow through on your promises, and remain transparent about your thoughts and feelings. Avoid secrecy or dishonesty, as they erode trust and breed insecurity. Building trust takes time and effort, but it's essential for creating a strong and resilient bond that can weather life's challenges.

4. Practice Empathy and Understanding: Empathy is the ability to understand and share your partner's feelings and experiences. Put yourself in their shoes, validate their emotions, and offer support and comfort when needed. Show empathy by actively listening, being nonjudgmental, and offering reassurance during difficult times. By practicing empathy, you foster emotional intimacy, strengthen your connection, and build a sense of mutual support.

5. Embrace Compromise and Flexibility: Every relationship encounters conflicts and disagreements, but how you navigate them determines the relationship's strength and longevity. Be willing to compromise, find common ground, and seek solutions that benefit both partners. Approach conflicts with a spirit of collaboration rather than competition, and be open to feedback and constructive criticism. Cultivating a mindset of flexibility and compromise fosters harmony and cooperation in the relationship.

6. Invest in Quality Time Together: Spend meaningful time together to nurture your bond and create lasting memories. Whether it's going on dates, engaging in shared hobbies, or simply enjoying each other's company, prioritize quality time in your relationship. Disconnect from distractions, be fully present in the moment, and cherish the time you have together. Quality time strengthens your connection, fosters intimacy, and reinforces your commitment to each other.

7. Set Healthy Boundaries: Establishing and respecting boundaries is essential for maintaining a healthy and balanced relationship. Clearly communicate your needs, limits, and expectations, and honor your partner's boundaries as well. Healthy boundaries create a sense of safety, respect, and autonomy within the relationship, reducing conflicts and fostering mutual understanding.

8. Support Each Other's Growth: Encourage each other's personal growth and development, both individually and as a couple. Celebrate each other's successes, provide encouragement during challenges, and be each other's biggest cheerleaders. Create a nurturing environment where both partners feel empowered to pursue their goals and aspirations, knowing that they have each other's unwavering support.

In conclusion, building a strong and lasting relationship requires intentional effort, communication, and mutual respect. By prioritizing these key principles—communication, respect, trust, empathy, compromise, quality time, healthy boundaries, and support—you can create a relationship that not only stands the test of time but also thrives and flourishes with each passing day. Remember that building a healthy and enduring partnership is a journey, and it's the shared commitment and dedication of both partners that pave the way for a lifetime of love and happiness.

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[frownyalfred]

Jason: so I forgot about Father’s Day

Bruce:

Jason: okay, I didn’t forget about it. I didn’t know what to get you. but then it suddenly came to me, so.

Jason: *places large, bloodstained bag of broken computer parts on table*

Bruce: are those—

Jason: —the hard drives from the Russian case you’re working on? yeah. it took me a couple days, but I managed to get all of them. I know you were having trouble tracking them all down.

Bruce:

[yvainart]

kissing in secret behind royal palace’s walls